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life is a pretty word

exploring grace and gratitude following loss

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The mission of life is a pretty word is to inspire you to mindfully honor your heart and soul.

life is a pretty word

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February 11, 2017

Dayspring

February 11, 2017/ Monica Sword
Dayspring

Quiet mornings are a gift, especially when one lives near a metropolis. What time of day speaks to you?

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Grace
poetic, mindfulness
December 31, 2016

December Sundown

December 31, 2016/ Monica Sword
December Sundown

This time of year so many of us reflect to gain clarity. Something about endings and beginnings that sparks this human behavior. May your new year be clear and bright.

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December 31, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 1 Comment
Grace
poetic, melancholy, gifts, inspiration, nature
March 27, 2016

The Day the Music Stopped

March 27, 2016/ Monica Sword
The Day the Music Stopped

Standing at her graveside, the elder told the story, in native Anishinaabe tongue, of how the world began. We didn’t know a single word yet understood we were in that place where death and birth meet. 

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March 27, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 28 Comments
Grace, Grief
grief, grace, poetic, memories, nature, popular
February 19, 2016

there is a tree beyond my window

February 19, 2016/ Monica Sword
there is a tree beyond my window

The woman's eye in the tree, watching me write, gives new meaning to "live oak". Seemed like an opportunity to write a poem. Enjoy!

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Grace
grace, poetic, mystery, nature
February 06, 2016

I taste the loneliness

February 06, 2016/ Lena Kay Rufus
I taste the loneliness

How did she know? Might we each get a glimpse of the inevitable before it happens? Would you want to know?

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Lena Speaks
poetic, fear, popular
February 06, 2016

Courageous Captain

February 06, 2016/ Monica Sword
Courageous Captain

We get to choose the words and behaviors we use to cope when devastation finds us. In this piece, using the found poem poetic form, words from an article on a life well lived are remastered to convey the starkness many people experience.

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Grief
grief, life, poetic
January 20, 2016

Wedding Band

January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
Wedding Band

The loss of innocence and trust hurt worse than the black eye. You can walk away. 

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January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 3 Comments
Grace, Grief
grace, grief, fear, health, life, memories, poetic
November 09, 2015

Black and Blue

November 09, 2015/ Monica Sword
Black and Blue

Connecting color to our thoughts can bring a memory, an emotion or imagery to life. This poem is written from the power of color and how we might imagine where our loved ones go when they’ve left us here.

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Grace
connection, grace, imaginary, poetic, love
August 10, 2015

Dream of Oak

August 10, 2015/ Monica Sword
Dream of Oak

Just when I feel a lack of imagination, comes a dream. An unbidden act of vivid imagination pushing its message, its beauty, the unknown into the prefrontal cortex of a prosaic mind.

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Grace
dreams, poetic, grace, bittersweet, imaginary
August 10, 2015

Bow Down Old Sally

August 10, 2015/ Lena Kay Rufus
Bow Down Old Sally

Written as a fifteen-year-old, Lena's poem reminds us of our enduring place in the universe.

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August 10, 2015/ Lena Kay Rufus/ 6 Comments
Lena Speaks, Grace
poetic, nature, grace, mindfulness, inspiration, Lena speaks, audio, popular
August 04, 2015

Grief is Everywhere

August 04, 2015/ Monica Sword
Grief is Everywhere

A grief trigger poem I wrote about the things we notice after our loved one is gone. 

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August 04, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grief
grief, poetic, time, audio, melancholy
July 25, 2015

The little fish who flew on Northwest Airlines

July 25, 2015/ Monica Sword
The little fish who flew on Northwest Airlines

In this story, about the things we do for our pets, the phrase “no one left behind” comes to mind. 

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July 25, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Lena Speaks, Grace
Lena speaks, poetic, honor, bittersweet, pet, humor, nature, memories, grace
July 10, 2015

Death is in My House

July 10, 2015/ Lena Kay Rufus
Death is in My House

My daughter, Lena, experienced a near fatal health crisis about six months before she walked on. Contrasting her thoughts before and after that hospitalization, her words bring clarity to the thin veil between life and death.


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Lena Speaks
poetic, Lena speaks, imaginary, popular
July 05, 2015

Love is Sweet

July 05, 2015/ Lena Kay Rufus
Love is Sweet

A silly little poem Lena wrote as a young teenager. 

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Lena Speaks
Lena speaks, love, poetic, silly
June 28, 2015

Remember with me, that's your gift

June 28, 2015/ Monica Sword
Remember with me, that's your gift

A person in grief wants to remember and talk about their loved one despite the double-edged sword. How can you help when they can't ask?

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June 28, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grace
grace, memories, gifts, poetic
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life is a pretty word

Our mission is to encourage and inspire you to mindfully honor your heart, soul, and emotions following a loss. This site is a tribute to a beautiful, loving, and talented young woman who once scribbled on a scrap of paper life is a pretty word. 


 

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