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life is a pretty word

exploring grace and gratitude following loss

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The mission of life is a pretty word is to inspire you to mindfully honor your heart and soul.

life is a pretty word

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October 10, 2016

Rituals Make Us Human

October 10, 2016/ Monica Sword
Rituals Make Us Human

There is power in the group.
There is power in the solo.
There is power in the yes. 

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Grace
grace, fear, self-care, balance, gratitude, love, connection, popular
July 05, 2016

The Blueberry Catastrophe

July 05, 2016/ Monica Sword
The Blueberry Catastrophe

Whether the forgetting is circumstantial, a lack of mindfulness, or time induced, I don’t like it one bit. Forgetting sucks. 

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July 05, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
memories, grace, fear, balance, life, popular
February 20, 2016

My Book of Dreams

February 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
My Book of Dreams

Shortly after my daughter was born, I was so taken in by the miracle of life, I wrote a lengthy composition on our shared birth experience. Writing about her birth and rereading it periodically, I could relive the joy and the possibilities of all that lay ahead.

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February 20, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grief
grief, melancholy, memories, fear, grace, birth
February 06, 2016

I taste the loneliness

February 06, 2016/ Lena Kay Rufus
I taste the loneliness

How did she know? Might we each get a glimpse of the inevitable before it happens? Would you want to know?

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Lena Speaks
poetic, fear, popular
January 25, 2016

Writing--physical therapy for my soul

January 25, 2016/ Monica Sword
Writing--physical therapy for my soul

My message is not to convince you everything will eventually be pretty again. Writing is physical therapy for my soul. 

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Grace
grace, fear, self-care, health
January 20, 2016

Wedding Band

January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
Wedding Band

The loss of innocence and trust hurt worse than the black eye. You can walk away. 

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January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 3 Comments
Grace, Grief
grace, grief, fear, health, life, memories, poetic
January 11, 2016

Magical is the Word

January 11, 2016/ Monica Sword
Magical is the Word

Words have power. How can a single word become a guiding force for living with intention? My word for 2016 is "magical". What's yours? 

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Grace
grace, balance, honor, fear, time, joy, mindfulness, inspiration
November 16, 2015

Paris Love

November 16, 2015/ Monica Sword
Paris Love

Paris, city of light, darkened, for love.

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Grace
love, grief, grace, fear
October 31, 2015

The Day the Music Started

October 31, 2015/ Monica Sword
The Day the Music Started

I went into childbirth labor on Halloween night an hour before midnight. 

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October 31, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 3 Comments
Grace
time, memories, joy, gratitude, grace, love, fear, life, popular, birth
October 21, 2015

Breakup with Resistance

October 21, 2015/ Monica Sword
Breakup with Resistance

Resistance to the experiences life has thrown at me, the bricks of change I refused to accept are becoming the foundation of a way forward.

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October 21, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, fear, imaginary, inspiration, life, balance
June 30, 2015

Playing with Dolphins

June 30, 2015/ Monica Sword
Playing with Dolphins

Breaking out of the self-care routine can be a useful health strategy both tangible and intangible. Letting others support us in grief, acknowledging our vulnerability and taking steps to ensure our safety can create space to consider the deeper reasons we resist joy. 

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June 30, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
health, grace, gratitude, joy, self-care, nature, fear
June 13, 2015

Let it burn

June 13, 2015/ Monica Sword
Let it burn

Let It Burn is an imaginary view from my daughter’s perspective moments after her passing. Louise Gluck’s poem "The Wild Iris" prompted this imaginative piece.

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June 13, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 9 Comments
Grace
grace, imaginary, bittersweet, balance, fear
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life is a pretty word

Our mission is to encourage and inspire you to mindfully honor your heart, soul, and emotions following a loss. This site is a tribute to a beautiful, loving, and talented young woman who once scribbled on a scrap of paper life is a pretty word. 


 

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