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life is a pretty word

exploring grace and gratitude following loss

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The mission of life is a pretty word is to inspire you to mindfully honor your heart and soul.

life is a pretty word

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January 29, 2017

Brighter than ever

January 29, 2017/ Monica Sword
Brighter than ever

Loving a deceased person has its challenges. And its blessings. 

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Gratitude
love, gifts, gratitude
July 19, 2016

Letters from Stanford

July 19, 2016/ Monica Sword
Letters from Stanford

They say it is never too late to apologize. Will forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance make a difference? We can hope. 

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July 19, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 7 Comments
Gratitude, Grace, Lena Speaks
gratitude, grace, memories, love, mindfulness, Lena speaks, bittersweet, dreams, joy, popular
July 05, 2016

The Blueberry Catastrophe

July 05, 2016/ Monica Sword
The Blueberry Catastrophe

Whether the forgetting is circumstantial, a lack of mindfulness, or time induced, I don’t like it one bit. Forgetting sucks. 

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July 05, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
memories, grace, fear, balance, life, popular
January 20, 2016

Being a dork won't kill you

January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
Being a dork won't kill you

Being a dork won't kill your humanness but being an asshole will.

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Grace, Gratitude
grace, gratitude, health, love, balance, self-care, mindfulness, inspiration, life, popular
January 08, 2016

The Gift of the Solstice

January 08, 2016/ Monica Sword
The Gift of the Solstice

The sun's cycles remind us that what we've lost returns. 

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Gratitude
gratitude, balance, comfort, connection, gifts, honor, inspiration, life, nature
December 28, 2015

Sweet 2016

December 28, 2015/ Monica Sword
Sweet 2016

"When was the last time you did something for the first time?" --Sally Edwards
Ready, set, go and write your Sweet 2016 goals with intention. May you experience your most mindful and best year ever.

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December 28, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, balance, inspiration, life, mindfulness, self-care
November 30, 2015

The Dad We Know As Mighty Moe

November 30, 2015/ Monica Sword
The Dad We Know As Mighty Moe

Sheldon Cooper describes his spot as a "single point of consistency in an ever-changing world", so when I "saw" my dad seated at the next table, the memories came calling.

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November 30, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 10 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, memories, love, comfort, balance, connection, joy, inspiration, Christmas
November 23, 2015

Gratitude for the Old Soul

November 23, 2015/ Monica Sword
Gratitude for the Old Soul

We all know at least one old soul. Why do we love them so? What might we learn from them? We delight in their wisdom and long for more. 

 

 

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November 23, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 4 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, mindfulness, love, memories, inspiration
October 21, 2015

Breakup with Resistance

October 21, 2015/ Monica Sword
Breakup with Resistance

Resistance to the experiences life has thrown at me, the bricks of change I refused to accept are becoming the foundation of a way forward.

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October 21, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, fear, imaginary, inspiration, life, balance
August 18, 2015

My Girl Transformed

August 18, 2015/ Monica Sword
My Girl Transformed

Weird and wonderful dreams and their mixed messages can be comforting or bittersweet, frustrating or full of connection and meaning. 

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Grace, Gratitude
dreams, gratitude, love, bittersweet, grace, comfort, connection, nature, imaginary, melancholy
July 29, 2015

Drop into Stillness

July 29, 2015/ Monica Sword
Drop into Stillness

Of the many mindfulness strategies available today, this piece describes my recent experiences with ancient forms--traditional yoga and from the indigenous people of Australia, dadirri, inner deep listening. 

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Grace, Gratitude
grace, connection, mindfulness, self-care, nature, comfort
July 15, 2015

Casting On Connections

July 15, 2015/ Monica Sword
Casting On Connections

Remembering the interactions between family generations can be a loving way of witnessing our grief like a thread of yarn woven through our connected lives. These connections hold us up when we need them most. 

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July 15, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
joy, grace, gratitude, memories, comfort, connection, love
June 30, 2015

Playing with Dolphins

June 30, 2015/ Monica Sword
Playing with Dolphins

Breaking out of the self-care routine can be a useful health strategy both tangible and intangible. Letting others support us in grief, acknowledging our vulnerability and taking steps to ensure our safety can create space to consider the deeper reasons we resist joy. 

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June 30, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
health, grace, gratitude, joy, self-care, nature, fear
June 29, 2015

Extreme Self-Care; Should I or Could I?

June 29, 2015/ Monica Sword
Extreme Self-Care; Should I or Could I?

It takes experimentation to find self-care strategies that are achievable within the limits of our physical and emotional abilities before they became a sustainable routine. Through the discovery process, I learned self-care is not a selfish act and I began to feel real results.

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Gratitude
self-care, health, mindfulness, gratitude
June 15, 2015

The Joy of Small Things

June 15, 2015/ Monica Sword
The Joy of Small Things

The joy of remembering the small things, the snippets of memory that trigger a deluge of emotions or provide a moment of reprieve. 

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Gratitude
joy, memories, gratitude
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life is a pretty word

Our mission is to encourage and inspire you to mindfully honor your heart, soul, and emotions following a loss. This site is a tribute to a beautiful, loving, and talented young woman who once scribbled on a scrap of paper life is a pretty word. 


 

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