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life is a pretty word

exploring grace and gratitude following loss

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The mission of life is a pretty word is to inspire you to mindfully honor your heart and soul.

life is a pretty word

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January 29, 2017

Brighter than ever

January 29, 2017/ Monica Sword
Brighter than ever

Loving a deceased person has its challenges. And its blessings. 

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Gratitude
love, gifts, gratitude
October 10, 2016

Rituals Make Us Human

October 10, 2016/ Monica Sword
Rituals Make Us Human

There is power in the group.
There is power in the solo.
There is power in the yes. 

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October 10, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Grace
grace, fear, self-care, balance, gratitude, love, connection, popular
July 19, 2016

Letters from Stanford

July 19, 2016/ Monica Sword
Letters from Stanford

They say it is never too late to apologize. Will forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance make a difference? We can hope. 

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July 19, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 7 Comments
Gratitude, Grace, Lena Speaks
gratitude, grace, memories, love, mindfulness, Lena speaks, bittersweet, dreams, joy, popular
June 16, 2016

For Daddy

June 16, 2016/ Monica Sword
For Daddy

Evil-eyed. Soft-hearted. Absent. Spare-the-rod. Disciplinarian. Mediator. Coach. Present. Dads have as many parenting styles and roles as there are men on Earth. For the most part, they do the best they can.

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June 16, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 4 Comments
Grace
love, memories, grace
January 20, 2016

Being a dork won't kill you

January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
Being a dork won't kill you

Being a dork won't kill your humanness but being an asshole will.

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Grace, Gratitude
grace, gratitude, health, love, balance, self-care, mindfulness, inspiration, life, popular
December 21, 2015

That moment when the cake falls over

December 21, 2015/ Monica Sword
That moment when the cake falls over

You know how it feels. One minute you're enjoying a beautiful wedge of chocolate layer cake with that special someone and the next, it's gone. 

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December 21, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Grace
gifts, memories, love, grace, gratitude, melancholy, honor
November 30, 2015

The Dad We Know As Mighty Moe

November 30, 2015/ Monica Sword
The Dad We Know As Mighty Moe

Sheldon Cooper describes his spot as a "single point of consistency in an ever-changing world", so when I "saw" my dad seated at the next table, the memories came calling.

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November 30, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 10 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, memories, love, comfort, balance, connection, joy, inspiration, Christmas
November 23, 2015

Gratitude for the Old Soul

November 23, 2015/ Monica Sword
Gratitude for the Old Soul

We all know at least one old soul. Why do we love them so? What might we learn from them? We delight in their wisdom and long for more. 

 

 

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November 23, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 4 Comments
Gratitude
gratitude, mindfulness, love, memories, inspiration
November 16, 2015

Paris Love

November 16, 2015/ Monica Sword
Paris Love

Paris, city of light, darkened, for love.

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Grace
love, grief, grace, fear
November 09, 2015

Black and Blue

November 09, 2015/ Monica Sword
Black and Blue

Connecting color to our thoughts can bring a memory, an emotion or imagery to life. This poem is written from the power of color and how we might imagine where our loved ones go when they’ve left us here.

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Grace
connection, grace, imaginary, poetic, love
October 31, 2015

The Day the Music Started

October 31, 2015/ Monica Sword
The Day the Music Started

I went into childbirth labor on Halloween night an hour before midnight. 

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October 31, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 3 Comments
Grace
time, memories, joy, gratitude, grace, love, fear, life, popular, birth
September 21, 2015

What to Say

September 21, 2015/ Monica Sword
What to Say

Here are words, thoughts, and sentiments taken directly from the hundreds of cards and letters we received when my daughter walked on. Real words from real people. Fine examples of what to say to someone whose world has turned upside down.

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September 21, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grief
grief, honor, comfort, love, popular
September 09, 2015

Night Crawling on Anywhere Avenue

September 09, 2015/ Monica Sword
Night Crawling on Anywhere Avenue

What do elder life transitions, closure, and downsizing have in common? They are complex yet melancholic occasions for mindfulness as we cover unfamiliar ground.  

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September 09, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 1 Comment
Grace
grace, life, melancholy, memories, love, blessing, honor
August 24, 2015

Feeling Better

August 24, 2015/ Monica Sword
Feeling Better

It is a constant push and pull. Feel better but don't forget. Honor our loss while reintegrating. Tending our hearts when grief is a comforting cloak. And all the while wondering what is real. 

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August 24, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grief
grief, melancholy, love, nature, time, mindfulness
August 18, 2015

My Girl Transformed

August 18, 2015/ Monica Sword
My Girl Transformed

Weird and wonderful dreams and their mixed messages can be comforting or bittersweet, frustrating or full of connection and meaning. 

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Grace, Gratitude
dreams, gratitude, love, bittersweet, grace, comfort, connection, nature, imaginary, melancholy
July 15, 2015

Casting On Connections

July 15, 2015/ Monica Sword
Casting On Connections

Remembering the interactions between family generations can be a loving way of witnessing our grief like a thread of yarn woven through our connected lives. These connections hold us up when we need them most. 

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July 15, 2015/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
joy, grace, gratitude, memories, comfort, connection, love
July 05, 2015

Love is Sweet

July 05, 2015/ Lena Kay Rufus
Love is Sweet

A silly little poem Lena wrote as a young teenager. 

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Lena Speaks
Lena speaks, love, poetic, silly
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life is a pretty word

Our mission is to encourage and inspire you to mindfully honor your heart, soul, and emotions following a loss. This site is a tribute to a beautiful, loving, and talented young woman who once scribbled on a scrap of paper life is a pretty word. 


 

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