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life is a pretty word

exploring grace and gratitude following loss

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The mission of life is a pretty word is to inspire you to mindfully honor your heart and soul.

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March 26, 2018

To the remembering

March 26, 2018/ Monica Sword
To the remembering

This month is it. March. The angel-versary, death-versary or fill-in-the-blank-versary. There is no celebrating.  Only and ever, the remembering and forgetting again. 

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March 26, 2018/ Monica Sword/ 7 Comments
Grace
angel, memories, balance, dreams, popular
February 11, 2017

Dayspring

February 11, 2017/ Monica Sword
Dayspring

Quiet mornings are a gift, especially when one lives near a metropolis. What time of day speaks to you?

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February 11, 2017/ Monica Sword/ 1 Comment
Grace
poetic, mindfulness
January 29, 2017

Brighter than ever

January 29, 2017/ Monica Sword
Brighter than ever

Loving a deceased person has its challenges. And its blessings. 

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Gratitude
love, gifts, gratitude
December 31, 2016

December Sundown

December 31, 2016/ Monica Sword
December Sundown

This time of year so many of us reflect to gain clarity. Something about endings and beginnings that sparks this human behavior. May your new year be clear and bright.

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December 31, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 1 Comment
Grace
poetic, melancholy, gifts, inspiration, nature
October 10, 2016

Rituals Make Us Human

October 10, 2016/ Monica Sword
Rituals Make Us Human

There is power in the group.
There is power in the solo.
There is power in the yes. 

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October 10, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Grace
grace, fear, self-care, balance, gratitude, love, connection, popular
July 19, 2016

Letters from Stanford

July 19, 2016/ Monica Sword
Letters from Stanford

They say it is never too late to apologize. Will forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance make a difference? We can hope. 

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July 19, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 7 Comments
Gratitude, Grace, Lena Speaks
gratitude, grace, memories, love, mindfulness, Lena speaks, bittersweet, dreams, joy, popular
July 05, 2016

The Blueberry Catastrophe

July 05, 2016/ Monica Sword
The Blueberry Catastrophe

Whether the forgetting is circumstantial, a lack of mindfulness, or time induced, I don’t like it one bit. Forgetting sucks. 

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July 05, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 6 Comments
Grace, Gratitude
memories, grace, fear, balance, life, popular
June 16, 2016

For Daddy

June 16, 2016/ Monica Sword
For Daddy

Evil-eyed. Soft-hearted. Absent. Spare-the-rod. Disciplinarian. Mediator. Coach. Present. Dads have as many parenting styles and roles as there are men on Earth. For the most part, they do the best they can.

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June 16, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 4 Comments
Grace
love, memories, grace
June 06, 2016

Unfinishedness

June 06, 2016/ Monica Sword
Unfinishedness

Did you know unfinishedness is an actual word? Listening to a recent NPR radio broadcast, I thought the speaker made up the word to make their point. 

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June 06, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 4 Comments
Grace
life, grace
May 23, 2016

A Virtual Manifest-Storm

May 23, 2016/ Monica Sword
A Virtual Manifest-Storm

What happens when we connect with others near or far, living or dead? Can the connection with others be the hack we've longed for to manifest our dreams?

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May 23, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grace
grace, mindfulness, balance, connection, dreams
May 09, 2016

Missing in Action

May 09, 2016/ Monica Sword
Missing in Action

“In order to understand the world, one has to turn away from it on occasion."
— Albert Camus in “The Myth of Sisyphus and Other Essays"

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May 09, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 7 Comments
Grace
grace, health, mindfulness
March 27, 2016

The Day the Music Stopped

March 27, 2016/ Monica Sword
The Day the Music Stopped

Standing at her graveside, the elder told the story, in native Anishinaabe tongue, of how the world began. We didn’t know a single word yet understood we were in that place where death and birth meet. 

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March 27, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 28 Comments
Grace, Grief
grief, grace, poetic, memories, nature, popular
March 05, 2016

Tenderly, softly, gently

March 05, 2016/ Monica Sword
Tenderly, softly, gently

My voice went missing the first day of March. The best I can do is a whisper as I wonder why any of my words matter. 

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March 05, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 1 Comment
Grief
grief, mindfulness, health, time
February 20, 2016

My Book of Dreams

February 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
My Book of Dreams

Shortly after my daughter was born, I was so taken in by the miracle of life, I wrote a lengthy composition on our shared birth experience. Writing about her birth and rereading it periodically, I could relive the joy and the possibilities of all that lay ahead.

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February 20, 2016/ Monica Sword/ 2 Comments
Grief
grief, melancholy, memories, fear, grace, birth
February 19, 2016

there is a tree beyond my window

February 19, 2016/ Monica Sword
there is a tree beyond my window

The woman's eye in the tree, watching me write, gives new meaning to "live oak". Seemed like an opportunity to write a poem. Enjoy!

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Grace
grace, poetic, mystery, nature
February 08, 2016

Work Your Way Backwards

February 08, 2016/ Monica Sword
Work Your Way Backwards

Work your way backwards to worry less. Can revisiting our original dreams show us the way forward?

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Lena Speaks
Lena speaks, time, balance
February 06, 2016

I taste the loneliness

February 06, 2016/ Lena Kay Rufus
I taste the loneliness

How did she know? Might we each get a glimpse of the inevitable before it happens? Would you want to know?

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Lena Speaks
poetic, fear, popular
February 06, 2016

Courageous Captain

February 06, 2016/ Monica Sword
Courageous Captain

We get to choose the words and behaviors we use to cope when devastation finds us. In this piece, using the found poem poetic form, words from an article on a life well lived are remastered to convey the starkness many people experience.

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Grief
grief, life, poetic
January 25, 2016

Writing--physical therapy for my soul

January 25, 2016/ Monica Sword
Writing--physical therapy for my soul

My message is not to convince you everything will eventually be pretty again. Writing is physical therapy for my soul. 

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Grace
grace, fear, self-care, health
January 20, 2016

Being a dork won't kill you

January 20, 2016/ Monica Sword
Being a dork won't kill you

Being a dork won't kill your humanness but being an asshole will.

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Grace, Gratitude
grace, gratitude, health, love, balance, self-care, mindfulness, inspiration, life, popular
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life is a pretty word

Our mission is to encourage and inspire you to mindfully honor your heart, soul, and emotions following a loss. This site is a tribute to a beautiful, loving, and talented young woman who once scribbled on a scrap of paper life is a pretty word. 


 

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